Question by your mom.: My mom wants me to die, please help, I’m really depressed?
I have a strange new mole that popped up that’s red, large, and irregularly shaped. I voiced my concern to this to my mother, who said, “You’re stupid. It’s just a freckle, so get over yourself.”
As I google lookout signs for skin cancer, I grow more concerned. So tonight, just thinking out loud, I said that I’d go to the school clinic to get it looked at tomorrow. To this, she says: “Do whatever you want.”
I told her why I was concerned, that it could be a beginning sign of skin cancer. She shrugged and said, “I don’t care.”
Note that skin cancer (and other cancers) runs in our family, I have extremely fair hair, skin & eyes. She has dark hair, olive skin and brown eyes, uses tanning OIL to tan outdoors for 4 hours a day on vacations, and tans in booths 4 times a week otherwise. She has never done a self-examination or had one done.
So, being hurt, I accidentally blurt out, “Well, with your habits and attitude towards health, you might get cancer one day!” Not mature, I know, but I was stung that she didn’t care about me.
So now SHE goes off the deep end, twisting it on me, saying that I want her to die. Then she says, “Well, I’ll wish death on you.”
She won’t even listen to me when I tell ehr that I hadn’t wished death upon her, I was just pointing out how careless about health she can be.
But it hurts so badly to know that my own mother doesn’t care, and even wishes, that I would die.
It really makes me want to off myself.
Best answer:
Answer by JaimeC
you just need to learn to cope with [email protected]
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i say don’t pay any attention to what your mother says if that is her attitude towards your health or her own for that matter. go the clinic, or better yet a doctor and have it looked at if you are worried about it in anyway. take your own health matters into your own hands. it could turn out to be nothing, but either way you’ll know and be able to take the proper steps. i know it hurts to have a mother who doesn’t seem to care, but you have to care about yourself regardless!!! i know it sounds cliché, but love yourself!!!!!!!
why dont you apologize to her, you probably hurt her feelings just as much as she hurt yours
well maybe your mother didnt mean to say that to you. but i still think that that is a little harsh, but yeah my mom has a mole as well, just get it checked, it is very important to get that checked every few years just to make sure if it isnt something now that it never becomes something, hope this helps. i hope the best of luck for you:)